the oldest student at new student orientation

All the new student activities have now been completed, and of course I was the oldest one in the room every time. I was expecting that, of course, and I've only gotten a few strange looks and been mistaken for a professor once. I do get a huge kick out of the fact that I'm going through new student orientation at the same time as many members of the FHS Class of 2019!

The way they do it here is to have one orientation for exchange students, which was last week; one orientation for international students, which I attended last Friday; and orientations today by academic department.

Snapshots:

• I've been the only American in either of my orientations. When people find out I'm American, they assume that I'm not going to be able to understand them if they speak French to me. Yet so far, I've understood just about everything and have been able to answer questions clearly when asked.

• I was also the only one taking notes at the French department orientation and one of very few doing so at the international student orientation. That fascinated me. Generation gap?

• There were about 150 students at the international students' orientation, slightly more women than men, nearly all of them from Africa, and nearly all of them very nicely dressed. About a third were undergrads, a third master's degree students, and a third doctoral students. Nearly all were in their 20's and 30's, of course, so I was secretly very pleased to see two women come in who were definitely close to my age! I hope to cross their paths at some point. I thought it was interesting when they offered a cultural explanation that in this culture, if something starts at 1:30 p.m., you need to be there by 1:25 to be ready to start at 1:30. They talked about the transition to life in Canada (with more than a passing reference to winter), getting settled into living accommodations, and lots of info about student services: health services including mental health, financial aid, help finding work, academic support, and student activities.

• There were 15 students at the French department orientation; we were told that there were 25 new students total. 11 from the region, one exchange student from France, one each from Martinique and Guadeloupe, and me.  13 young women, one young man, and me. The department head sort of explained to the others what the French exchange student was doing there and what I was doing there; she stood out because of her accent, and I stood out because of my age. All the same info about student services came up again, and instead of talking about adjustment to Canada the rest of the presentation was about what to expect from university academics.

• Both the international students' orientation and the French department orientation were three-hour presentations. There was no interactive stuff, no ice-breakers or get-to-know-you stuff, which was fine with me. Just sitting and listening. Both presentations did include lots of info about student services and student activities, and definitely gave me the impression that things are really well run around here. They do seem to truly care about student well-being; both orientations mentioned that there are really positive relationships between faculty and students and that the faculty members are approachable. Kind of like being back at FHS only on the other side of the desk!

• There are no dorm activities as we think of them in the USA. There is on-campus housing, all apartment suites, but it only accommodates a few hundred of the 15,000 students here, and is mostly occupied by international students, so I'm told. The vast majority of undergrads commute from home. I live in an apartment building with six apartments in a nice residential neighborhood which is all either apartment buildings or private homes with basement apartments rented to students.

So I'm all new-student-oriented. It helps of course that I've been here the past three summers and know where things are located on campus and know the neighborhood, the city, and the region. I'm all settled into my apartment.

One thing they do here that's really helpful (and maybe American universities do this too and I'm just not aware of it since it's been awhile! ...) is put the course syllabus online. It is expected that students will read it before going to the first class. So over lunch I read the syllabi for my four courses ... and promptly dropped one of the four. The total workload would have just been too much. So I'm at nine credits now. I'll write more about the courses next time when things are finalized in case I do any more dropping/adding.

All the classes meet once a week for three hours. So the two three-hour orientations were also an orientation to staying focused and following presentations in French for three hours (with no break in one case) in which information was flowing in a constant unbroken stream. The syllabus for two of the three courses said that cell phones are to be turned off and put in our bags, not on the table, and that we are not allowed to have laptops out. Good thing I have good note-taking skills.

I have one class each on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday. That's going to be great for coming home weekends. Sometimes I think I'd like to come home most weekends. But I wonder if that defeats the purpose of being here. Time will tell.

The two orientations were very informative, but I'm glad they're done and I'm eager to go to my first class tomorrow!